STEP 1 “THE TALK”
What talk are we talking about? It's the talk about who will care for your beloved family pets if something happens and you can no longer care for them. In case you are thinking “this doesn’t apply to me because”
A. “I’m not that old”
This applies to every pet owner, no matter what your age, because you never know what may happen. People die in accidents every day and you never know when illness or injury will cause you to be unable to care for your pets. The risk might be low for you, but do you want to leave your pets unprotected just in case?
B. “My Family will take care of them”
Perhaps you're thinking, "my spouse will take care of them", or "our kids will take them" and perhaps they will, but it's important to confirm that with them and then document it in your estate plan documents. Every week Perpetual Care, animal shelters, and rescues receive calls from family members trying to place pets in need of rehoming after their family member has passed away or gone into a nursing facility. These people are desperate to rehome the pets because there wasn't a plan in place for who will take their pets. In many cases we can tell that their relative was assuming they would just take in their pets.
C. “My pets aren’t going to outlive me”
Again, accidents and illnesses can happen at any age. Don’t leave your pets at risk when they depend on you to have a plan for them.
D. “I don’t have anyone who will take my pets”
The number of single households in the US has increased over the years. Roughly 13 percent of American adults live alone, research shows.
Breaking down that figure by age groups, the population of solitaries rises from 4 percent of adults at ages 18-24 to 9 percent at 25-34, dips to 8 percent at 35-44, then rises again, to 12 percent at 45-54, 17 percent at 55-64 and 26 percent at 65 and up. (Pew Data). In population numbers, there were an estimated 36.05 million single-person households in the U.S. in 2022. So, it could be a significant concern for people in single households, who benefit from the company of a pet. For people who cannot identify a caregiver for their pets, it’s important to have a talk with the local humane society or spca in your community to find out about their pet life care options if they have them and of course, Perpetual Care takes pets from anywhere in the U.S. We also encourage people to always being thinking of friends who love your pets or perhaps a reciprocal agreement between you and a fellow pet lover to take each other’s pets if it becomes necessary.
The end of the year can be a good time to have "The Talk" with your family or friends often because you are already gathering together for the holidays, but just have the talk whatever time of year it is. Having the discussion is important because if you just assume someone will take your pets, you are taking a big risk for your pet’s future.
We also recommend that you identify a primary caregiver and a secondary caregiver among your family and friends and document it because life circumstances change. Even if you are faithful to performing an annual review of your estate plans, it is possible that at some point in that year, your primary caregiver may be unable to follow through with taking your pets if even if they agreed to it, so a secondary caregiver provides a backup plan.
How to document your Caregivers
Perpetual Care provides you with a Pet Life Care Agreement Template that you can modify and use to document your plans.
If you don't have someone willing or able to take your pets, contact us at Perpetual Care to set up your life care agreement with Perpetual Care.
STEP 2 TAKE INVENTORY
Okay, so taking inventory does not sound very exciting but it should be a very enlightening and helpful step, and it’s not as difficult as you may think. It may also help you to think about how to improve your financial situation and build a stronger and well thought out estate.
The Inventory is a list of your assets and a list of any person or organization (beneficiaries) to whom you want to leave any of your assets. Assets are simply anything that you own, whether it is property, bank accounts or investments. Just a reminder, that in the eyes of the law, you pets are property and so they should go on you list and you should document on your inventory list who has agreed to take your pets.
Using the example below, start with a very short simple list of anything of value that you own and any beneficiaries you are considering.
Note that the list has a place to identify who you want to be your primary and secondary caregivers for your pets. You may even have one person who takes one pet and a different person who takes another pet.
Simply place an X by any of the items that you have on the left side list and on the right side place an X by any people or organizations who you want to leave any of those items to in your estate. It will help you to put the account numbers or have a copy of a statement for any accounts with your list.
How you can use that information will be covered when we go over Wills and Trusts.
Note: The list is a jpeg file so if you are reading this on your phone, just press on it and save it to your photos.
STEP 3 DECIDE-WILL OR TRUST
WILL VS TRUST
Hopefully, you have taken the first 2 steps in estate planning for yourself and your pets.
Step 1 is critical no matter who you expect to take your pets. Have “The Talk” and ask your intended caregivers if they would be willing to take your pets.
Step 2 is taking an inventory of all that you own and deciding who you want to get what. In this step, it’s important to include your pets because under the law, pets are property. Also, be sure to identify a primary caregiver and a secondary or backup caregiver.
Step 3: Now, it is time decide if you are going to have a WILL or a TRUST.
A WILL-is a legal document that stipulates how to distribute your assets (including property, which includes your pets) upon your death.
The majority of people have a simple WILL. Here are the usual reasons why:
· It is quicker and easier for you and for your lawyer.
· The cost of a will is less than the cost of a trust.
· You may have few assets and your family relationships are not complicated.
The Downsides of a Will as it affects your Pets:
· A will ONLY takes effect when you pass away….that means your pets are unprotected if you go into a nursing care facility or become otherwise unable to care for them.
· The majority of wills go into probate which can last weeks or months….in that interim, who will care for your pets?
For both of these downsides, Perpetual Care offers you a solution. We provide pet owners with a PET LIFE CARE AGREEMENT which will protect your pets while you are still living. (See below)
GOOD NEWS-YOUR WILL CAN BE FREE!
We also have GOOD NEWS regarding the cost of a will. Perpetual Care works with FREE WILL (www.freewill.com) , an organization that is committed to ensuring that every person has access to having a will. They provide legal support that meets the state requirements of every state and it truly is FREE! Visit their website at www.freewill.com to get started.
A TRUST- is a legal document that allows you to create a separate legal entity, the trust, and retitle assets in the name of the trust during your lifetime. You, the grantor, designate a trustee to manage those assets on your behalf. A trust takes effect immediately while you are still living.
See below for a chart that compares wills and trusts.
YOU STILL NEED A PET LIFE CARE DOCUMENT
Regardless of whether you opt for a Trust or a Will I still recommend that you include a PET LIFE CARE AGREEMENT or PET TRUST in your estate documents. A PET TRUST is the best protection you can give your pet because it takes effect immediately and it describes in detail what you want to happen with your pets. It also designates a trustee to oversee your wishes. You can designate your pets’ caregivers, you can designate funds for their care and you can describe how to care for them.
PET LIFE CARE AGREEMENT
A Pet Life Care Agreement is a simple contract between you as the pet owner and your primary and secondary caregivers. No funds need to be designated although you can designate them as beneficiary in your will or trust as well as in the agreement. The benefit of the Pet Life Care Agreement is that it takes effect immediately whereas your will takes effect only when you die.
PET LIFE CARE TRUST
A Pet Life Care Trust is an agreement between you as the pet owner and your primary and secondary caregiver and designates funds to the care of your pets. Again, the benefit of the Pet Life Care Trust is that it takes effect immediately.
To request a copy of these agreements, visit our website at www.perpetualcare.org/services.
YOUR 2 OTHER KEY DOCUMENTS
Just a reminder about the other key documents in your estate plan, which do not involve your pets, but are also important to have in your estate plan.
· Advance Directive- An advance directive (sometimes called a “living will” and is not the same as a living trust) is a document that outlines the kind of medical care you want if you are terminally ill. It should include identification of a healthcare representative or power of attorney for healthcare.
· (Financial) Power of Attorney-The power of attorney for finances is a document that gives someone the authority to handle financial transactions on your behalf. This is beneficial in case you have diminished capacity to handle your own finances.
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Immediately upon signing and funding
Protection if disabled/incapacitated
No-Wills are public records
Provides Guardianship for Minor Children
No-Although a living trust usually includes a default will to cover anything not covered in the trust
Process & Costs
Simple straightforward process. Cost anywhere from $0-1,000. Average cost can be as little as $100.
More involved, requires an attorney and can be $400-$2,500 Depending on complexity and location
Likely to be successfully challenged.
Unlikely to be successfully challenged.
Secondary to Trusts
Usually Takes precedence over wills
No-For Revocable Trusts
Yes-For Irrevocable Trusts
Protection from Creditors
No-For Revocable Trusts
Yes-For Irrevocable Trusts
To Be Continued: Coming up Next "How to document your plans"
and Communicate Your Plan - "Who, What, How"